It’s Decision Time! When do you want to grow up?

In this life no matter how big or famous you are and you still have parents, you’ll always have this feeling inside of you to ‘shush’ them up and tell them to mind their business. We feel at a certain age it high time we take up our life as a big responsibility. Most of us have feelings like that anyways.

At a certain age and time, Our parents should stop making decisions for us. Don’t get it twisted.. They are still our parents and we love them so much but there are times we feel we want to own up to our own responsibilities, consequences, mistakes, life experiences. They should allow us make mistakes especially when we are growing up so we can learn from it.

If a 14 year old boy cannot take up his responsibilities as a teenager, he will not see it as a big issue in 10 yrs time and by then he will be 24 so in the next 10 years more (34) it will be difficult for him to take bigger responsibilities of what life offers him at that age. We grow and we change every minute and our brain and mental thinking changes too and our body responds to it any day, any time.

I feel a good parent will always teach you in the good way and not mislead you. Not forgetting the fact that we should always honour them and obey them. And if you really want to take up your responsibility i.e your life and clean up that mess you’ve made or will still make, why not start now and change. Its best if people don’t toss you around and you end up not becoming someone big/famous/influential/Rich/Popular etc. in Life. Be responsible and live up to it. This post reminds me of a movie ‘Failure to Launch’ search for it and watch it and you will understand what I mean.

Till my next post.. Love & Kisses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


One response

  1. You are totally right. Our parents affect us LONG after they physically move away from us. Haha I still hear my mom telling me to put a jacket on before I leave the house, even though I live on the other side of the world now.

    One thing I thought of while reading your post is that the best parents are not necessarily ones that make you obey them, but rather represent exactly what they want you to be. That way, you follow what they do without ever questioning, and hopefully become that which they wanted you to be in the first place. Of course, this would also definitely cut down on all the arguments about curfues and dating…. right? haha

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